How to Make a Girl Laugh

Knowing how to make a girl laugh will provide you with the key to her heart! We are all different, but at the very least appreciate that girls, in general, have a different since of humour to boys! Break the ice, be funny!

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Steps

1- Have a positive outlook on life. If you’re generally being positive, things will automatically make her put you into the ‘light hearted’ bracket. This makes her more likely to find something that you say funny!

2- Context not content! The key to making a girl laugh is not what you say, but how you say it and when you say it! Smile, be facially animate and be forward!

3- Observational humour is not as well received by ladies. Don’t pick up on things she says or does that you think are funny.

4- Exhume confidence. Whether you are naturally confident or not is irrelevant. Acting confidently is just that- acting! Confident people are much more likeable and easy to get on with. Smile, be forward and open with your body language, and take the initiative.

5- You don’t have to be the person who has to crack all the jokes all of the time. You don’t have to be a comedian as this is a skill that takes years to develop. Instead, don’t be too serious (but don’t be a clown either), don’t take everything that is said to heart, and think twice before negatively reacting to something or someone. Be playful and fun. Adopt a frame of mind where you see the positive in everything and a good sense of humour will naturally develop.

6- Keep conversation fun and flirty (but not sleazy), and make subtle yet un-invasive contact whenever possible. Slight moments of discomfort and pauses in conversation are good as they keep the nature of the conversation flirtatious. In these brief moments, do not make it look like you’re trying to think of conversation, instead fill them with an action such as ordering drinks, or even making a compliment. Test the water by starting to throw out low-level “bait” i.e. subtle jokes that hint at sexual interest. A good baiting statement should be un-intrusive, playful, and fairly ambiguous. She/he will hopefully reciprocate with the same kind of “Baiting” so pay attention to what she/he says! Make it clear through a cheeky smile (or similar) that you have understood any subtle messages of this type that she/he may have sent you. Wait for her to continue conversation.

Tips

Don’t try to be funny, instead, try to see the humour in things i.e. stay light hearted.

Laugh with your eyes, this is incredibly attractive and makes laughing contagious.